Turning the Negative Into the Positive

It's time to make some changes. Out with the old negative talk and in with the new. I realized that I was probably attracting some negative energy with my use of profane language regarding my ex. I was an equal opportunity offender, any negative word would do. But, every time I said something negative about him or regarding him, I was actually attracting negative to me.

My friend LL kindly pointed out that using the word ex or X has a negative connotation, so I'm trying out FS (former spouse) or FH (former husband). I call him the kid's dad, but that doesn't always work in conversations. The word ex does have a wonderful sense of power and it feels really, really good to say sometimes, but like I said, I'm working on it.

I'll let you know how it goes...

To your new life...
Claire

Tags | Divorce | Former Husband